When Brian and I were going through premarital counseling many moons ago, we were in agreement -- we wanted 3-4 kids. Funny enough, because we were getting married so young, one of my fears was that we'd accidentally end up with far more than 4 kiddos. Yet, within 6 months of our wedding date, we had a long discussion, took a deep breath, and decided it was time to leave babies up to fate. We assumed it would only be a matter of months until we'd be posting our creative pregnancy announcement on social media. Instead, we waited. And waited. And waited.