I grew up with dogs, but always thought of myself as more of a cat person. Brian is more extreme. He’s told almost everyone we know for as long as I’ve known him that he doesn’t like dogs. Eloise, unlike her parents, doesn’t discriminate — she seems to like all furry animals.
Off to the hospital we go. Again.
Friday I got a video message from Brian while I was working from my company's Tartu office, "Hey, I'm gonna try to capture this. She's doin' something weird -- like you almost just saw it there for a second. Like she's trying to bite her fingers and then just starts shaking." I watched the video of this new thing happening with Eloise and my stomach dropped. Something was wrong. Very very wrong.
17 months: Our golden period
I swear I remember reading long ago that parents were supposed to look forward to a golden period -- a few months after your baby was born but before they learned to crawl. Because your baby would laugh and smile and coo but weren't yet at a place where they were mobile and constantly destroyed your house. Well, I think we’ve finally made it to that golden period in Eloise’s life. And there are so many things to celebrate in its midst.
Week 11: Wonderful and weird
This was original posted on facebook in 2021 around a month after we found out about her diagnosis. This week was both wonderful and weird At this second, most of the time I just feel like a normal mom. Eloise is literally breastfeeding 95% of the time she’s awake these days. (And, unlike her bottle... Continue Reading →
Week 10: Doctors. Therapies. Hospitals. This is our life.
The original facebook post made a month after her original diagnosis in 2021. April 7, 2021 Doctors. Therapies. Hospitals. This is already our life. Like I mentioned, Tuesday last week was the orthopedic surgeon who gave us the good news of no hip dysplasia. Followed by a quick physiotherapy appointment. Then Wednesday we saw a doctor at a private... Continue Reading →
Week 8: Finding a new North Star
March 20, 2021 This was originally published on facebook shortly after we received Eloise's diagnosis in 2021. So much to write. So little time. https://youtu.be/dPsNhKL27r4 This week, according to "wonder weeks" she should have given her first smile and tracked objects for short periods of time with her eyes.Smiles have not arrived yet, but apparently... Continue Reading →