Two sides of the same coin

While training to be a counselor, a friend once said he learned never to assume you know what emotion someone has about an event. "Maybe a woman just lost her long time husband and you think, 'Gosh, I'm sorry, that must have been tough.' But you never know. Maybe he was a violent alcoholic and so her reaction was actually, 'Thank God he's gone. I'm finally free!'" So when you watch this video of Eloise, do you feel pity? Excitement? Or maybe even anger and frustration?

June 1, 2022 2

I’m not the mom I’d envisioned

Sometime during my years growing from a child into an adult, I internalized the idea that I was never doing enough. Besides that -- I decided back then -- whatever I did do was never good enough. If I had a school project, it couldn't just be "good enough," it needed to be over-the-top amazing.... Continue Reading →

April 5, 2022 1

Strategies to thrive for when life sucks

Life with Eloise is an absolute and utter joy. Until it isn't. We will find a way to take care of this kid and take care of ourselves and take care of our relationship. And we won't accept a life of merely existing in pain as an option. We will thrive while we do it. We're not there yet, but we've made a lot of progress. This is that progress. Part 2 of "Time to re-learn Teamwork".

March 3, 2022 3

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